Dating is hard. Many women find it difficult to meet guys to date who are looking for marriage or a long term relationship. No woman really wants to meet men at the bar or a night club, and as most men are waiting until they are older for serious commitments, college is no longer the place to meet someone with an eye for the long term.
Online Dating: A Way to Meet Prince Charming
Online dating can be a fun way to meet a guy. Imagine the potential: a computer, millions of men and a possible chance to meet Prince Charming or at least a chance for a budding romance. However, no one knows who is on the other side of the computer screen.
There is a way for women to narrow down the men they are interested in meeting and dating without going solely on looks. The answer is found in the questions that a woman asks a man she is interested in. These questions can be asked via email but should be asked in person; this way a woman can watch the man’s non-verbal clues to ascertain whether or not he is telling the truth.
First Date Questions Women Should Ask Men
The first date shouldn’t be seen as grilling time, so a woman should always remember to be fun, honest and pleasant when asking and talking to the guy or he may be the one who is put off. However, there is no point in delaying the questions because it will be harder to for a woman to believe what her instincts are telling her if she has dated the guy for a while and likes him.
Women should also remember to listen carefully to the mans answers or all of the questions she asks are pointless.
The first question a woman should ask a guy is “Are you married/engaged/or seeing anyone?” Just because a man is doing online dating doesn’t mean he is single – even if his profile states that he is. The number of men whose faces turned red, stammered an answer or averted eye contact would surprise a lot of people. And that is all a woman needs to see to know the answer to that question. Next!
A good way for a woman to find out if a man is interested in her is to ask, “If you had one question for me what would it be?” A woman can tell by a man’s answer if he is interested in getting to know her for a date, for a booty call or if he is just plain not interested. Another fun question would be to ask if he would call in sick to work to travel to Europe for a week. It will tell a woman if the man is work-conscious or more adventurous and fun. It may also indicate that his job comes before everything else in his life; even his girlfriend.
Try asking him what he likes to do for fun. If he starts to list a whole bunch of activities without asking to see if the woman also enjoy those activities, it may be a sign that he is all about himself and his likes. Dating a man like this may mean that his partner never gets to do things that she likes.
Online dating is a great way to meet men. However, women shouldn’t rely on what a man’s online profile says about him. They should always ask basic questions and look at the man while he is answering to see if there are any tell-tell signs that he is being dishonest. Also, women should always remember to be safe when they meet men from an online dating site.